What makes me different?

I was born in Sicily, in a tiny town where dreams seemed as distant as the stars. My parents, salt-of-the-earth folk with calloused hands and hearts of gold, never saw the inside of a middle school classroom. But they had a vision - a better life in Canada, a promise of opportunity that sparkled like a mirage on the horizon.

We packed our hopes in weathered suitcases and crossed an ocean. But better? To my young eyes, it felt like we'd landed on an alien planet. School became my daily battleground. I'd trudge home each afternoon, my cheeks stained with tears and my tongue tied in knots, unable to form the strange sounds that would unlock friendship.

Those report cards might as well have been written in invisible ink. All I could see were the C's and D's that screamed, "Nice kid, but don't expect much." They didn't say it outright, but oh, how those letters echoed in my mind.

My mother, bless her resourceful heart, finally reached her breaking point. One morning, she pressed a fistful of candy into my palm, a sweet arsenal against loneliness. "Share," she said, her eyes gleaming with hope. And for a fleeting moment, it worked like magic. Kids flocked to me, laughter bubbling up like a spring. But as the last sugary morsel disappeared, so did my newfound popularity.

That day, standing alone in the playground with empty pockets and a heavier heart, I realized a harsh truth: in this new world, I was on my own. I had to become the architect of my own destiny.

This bittersweet epiphany became the seed of my book, "Now That the Candy's Gone: Mastering the Art of Self-Confidence." What started as scribbled thoughts in a worn journal - a lifeline in turbulent times - blossomed into something more. It's not just my story anymore; it's a beacon for others navigating their own storms.

Between these pages, I bare my soul, examining the self-doubt that once threatened to anchor me to mediocrity. But more than that, I offer a roadmap. I delve into the often-overlooked realm of emotional intelligence, sharing hard-won strategies to break free from the shackles of limiting beliefs.

This book is my candy now - an offering to those who feel lost, a reminder that true confidence comes from within. It's a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and a guide to unlocking the potential that lies dormant in each of us, waiting for the moment we dare to believe in ourselves.

My journey of resilience has also deepened my passion for serving others, particularly Military and Veteran families. Having spent over a decade working alongside these incredible communities, I was honored to collaborate with Franklin Covey to develop 7 Habits of Highly Effective Military Families for the Canadian Armed Forces. Supporting those who serve, and their families, continues to be one of the most fulfilling parts of my work.

• Synchronous Learning Expert: I am classified as an expert in synchronous learning, adept at creating and delivering real-time, interactive educational experiences.
• Neurolinguistic Programming Practitioner: As a certified practitioner, I utilize NLP techniques to help clients reframe their thinking, improve communication, and achieve their goals.
• Certified in the Foundations of Neuroleadership: My certification in Neuroleadership enables me to integrate cutting-edge neuroscience principles into leadership development, enhancing decision-making, emotional regulation, and performance.
• Qualified to Administer Multiple Type II Psychological Assessments: I am qualified to administer a range of psychological assessments, including Emotional Intelligence, personality dimensions, and Strong Interest Inventory, which inform tailored coaching strategies.
• Certified Life Success Consultant: I am certified to guide individuals toward achieving their life goals and maximizing their potential.
• Professional Resume Writer and Recruitment Specialist: I have expertise in crafting compelling resumes and providing recruitment insights to help clients stand out in the job market.
• Accomplished Designer, Facilitator, and Evaluator of Adult Education: My extensive experience in adult education ensures effective learning experiences and outcomes.
• AI Certified Expert: My certification in artificial intelligence enables me to integrate advanced AI principles into my coaching and training programs.
• Public Speaker and Published Author: As a recognized speaker and author, I share my insights and expertise with broader audiences, empowering and inspiring others.
• Experience in Multiple Industries: My diverse industry experience provides a comprehensive understanding of various professional landscapes.
• Award-Winning Performance: I am proud to have been recognized with the Corporate Vision 2024 Best Canadian Holistic Leadership Development Company, Corporate Life Wire's 2024, Canadian Innovation and Excellence Award and a semi-finalist in the 2025 Real Leadrrs Top Executive Coach Awards.